What happens in the video
Theo wants to tell Nadia how he feels, but he gets nervous and says he really likes her coffee, then calls it "a nice cup." He takes a breath and tries again: "I can't stop thinking about you." Nadia's answer shows the feeling goes both ways. Watch the Short to hear how each line sounds.
1 I can't stop thinking about you.
Tone Honest and a little brave
Use this when the person is always on your mind and you're ready to be open about it. It's strong for a first conversation, so save it for someone you already know a little.
I know this is awfully forward of me, but I can't stop thinking about you.
For example:
A: You've been quiet all evening. Is everything okay?
B: Yes. It's just that I can't stop thinking about you.
A: Really? I was hoping you'd say something like that.
2 I have a crush on you.
Tone Light and a bit shy
A crush is a new, small feeling, so this line sounds playful and low pressure. Use it with someone your own age in a relaxed moment. It can sound too young in a very serious conversation.
So... I have a crush on you.
For example:
A: Why are you smiling like that?
B: Okay, I'll just say it. I have a crush on you.
A: That's sweet. I think I have one on you too.
3 Would you go out with me?
Tone Bold: you ask for a date
Use this when you want a real date, not just a chat. It is clear and polite. In fast speech, people often say "Would you wanna go out with me?" because "wanna" means "want to." Write "want to" in formal messages.
...see you in here a lot, and I think that you're really pretty. And would you wanna go out with me?
For example:
A: I always see you at this cafe. Would you go out with me sometime?
B: I'd like that. How about Friday?
4 I really enjoy spending time with you.
Tone Warm and safe
Use this as a gentle first step. It shows interest but still sounds friendly, so the other person can answer without pressure. It is not a clear request for a date.
For example:
A: Thanks for walking me home.
B: Anytime. I really enjoy spending time with you.
5 Do you want to get coffee sometime?
Tone Casual and friendly
Use this to invite someone out in an easy, low-risk way. Coffee feels small and relaxed. If you want the meaning to be clearly romantic, add a stronger line later.
For example:
A: It was fun talking to you today.
B: Same here. Do you want to get coffee sometime?
A: Sure. I know a nice place near the station.
6 I'd like to see you again.
Tone Polite and clear
Use this at the end of a meeting or a first date. It shows interest without big words. It works in person or in a message.
For example:
A: Well, this is my bus.
B: I had a great time tonight. I'd like to see you again.
A: Me too. Text me.
7 You've been on my mind.
Tone Soft and a little open
This is a gentler version of "I can't stop thinking about you." Use it in a message or a quiet talk. It hints at feelings without saying everything.
For example:
A: Hey, I didn't expect to hear from you.
B: I know. You've been on my mind, so I wanted to say hi.
8 I'm really glad you came.
Tone Kind and welcoming
Use this when someone joins you at a party, class, or event. It shows that you notice them and value their company. Alone, it can sound only friendly, so your voice and smile carry the extra meaning.
For example:
A: Sorry I'm late. The traffic was terrible.
B: Don't worry about it. I'm really glad you came.
Common mistakes
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Not quite
I can't stop to think about you.Better I can't stop thinking about you.
Stop + -ing means the action doesn't end. Stop + to means you pause one action to do another, so "stop to think" changes the meaning completely.
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Not quite
I have a crush to you.Better I have a crush on you.
The fixed phrase is "have a crush on" someone. The words "to," "for," and "with" sound wrong here.
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Not quite
Would you go out to me?Better Would you go out with me?
You go out with a person. "Go out to" names a place, as in "go out to dinner."
Quick quiz
Choose your answer for each question, then open the answer to check it.
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Which line clearly asks for a date?
- I really enjoy spending time with you.
- Would you go out with me?
- I'm really glad you came.
Show the answer (Question 1)
Answer: Would you go out with me? It is a direct question that asks the person to go on a date.
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What does "I have a crush on you" usually express?
- A deep, long love
- A new, small feeling
- A friendly thank you
Show the answer (Question 2)
Answer: A new, small feeling A crush is a light, new feeling, not a serious long-term love.
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Choose the correct sentence.
- I can't stop to think about you.
- I can't stop thinking about you.
- I can't stop think about you.
Show the answer (Question 3)
Answer: I can't stop thinking about you. After stop, use the -ing form to mean an action keeps going.
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You want to show interest but keep it very low pressure. Which line fits best?
- I can't stop thinking about you.
- I really enjoy spending time with you.
- Would you go out with me?
Show the answer (Question 4)
Answer: I really enjoy spending time with you. It sounds warm and friendly and doesn't ask for an answer.
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In "Would you wanna go out with me?", what does "wanna" mean?
- want a
- want to
- wanted
Show the answer (Question 5)
Answer: want to "Wanna" is the spoken form of "want to."
Questions learners ask
How do you tell someone you like them in English without saying it directly?
Start with a warm line such as "I really enjoy spending time with you" or "I'd like to see you again." These show interest but leave space for the other person. If they respond well, you can move to a clearer line such as "Would you go out with me?"
Is "I have a crush on you" childish?
Not usually. It sounds light and a bit shy, and adults use it too. Because a crush is a new, small feeling, the line can sound too playful for a serious talk with a long-term partner.
What is the difference between "go out with" and "date"?
"Go out with me" usually means a single date or the start of seeing each other. People also say two people are "going out" when they are in a relationship. In a first invitation, "Would you go out with me?" simply asks for a date.
Is "I can't stop thinking about you" too strong?
It can be, if you say it to someone you barely know. It is honest and a little brave, so it fits best when you already have some connection. For a softer version, try "You've been on my mind."
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